I came very close to having one the day before the wedding. My Mom and I were headed to the venue for the rehearsal and needed to pick up my brother. Being 18 and fresh out of high school he doesn't exactly try to be on time so we had to wait about 20 minutes before he was ready. As we were on our way finally his GF called. She wanted to get picked up because her ride fell through. We headed to her house. When we got there, no one was home. We called her, "Oh, I'm actually at the nail salon getting my nails done, sorry!" We drove over to the nail salon and picked her up. By this time I was seeing red and focusing on refraining from speaking. When she hopped in the car she noticed the iciness in the air and kept quiet. We finally reached the venue 30 minutes late. H must have known I was stressing out so he didn't call and text me multiple times which would have caused me to smash my phone probably. Once we got out of the car H and our wedding party all crowded around me and started jumping up and down excitedly, causing me to laugh at their silliness.
After that everything went fine. I learned later that my Mom pulled my brother aside and told him he needs to make sure his GF stays away from me and that she needs to figure out her transportation for the wedding day and not to call either her or me.
So, did anyone else get close to losing it? I have to say I'm very proud of myself I didn't say anything I would have regretted later. She didn't mean to cause so much stress but it was bad timing on her part. I still don't know why my Mom insisted on picking her up for the rehearsal, she could've gotten a ride to the dinner afterwards.