Possible mis-matching disaster?

kdanke

The dress I have chosen is white with a hint of champagne from the underlying layers of fabric. I was thinking I'd get gold sparkly shoes. Our table centerpieces also include some gold accents. However, I am not a fan of gold jewelry. My ring is white gold and I was planning on wearing silver earrings and a silver bracelet as well. Would this look bad? Would it look weird to mix gold shoes &centerpieces with silver jewelry?

NYCMercedes

Nobody is going to compare your dress to the centerpieces. Likewise, nobody is going to compare your shoes to your jewelry. It all sounds lovely. You're overthinking things.

CrazyCatLady3

I don't think your centerpieces need to match your dress or accessories, so I wouldn't worry about that. As for the shoes/accessories, it depends on how type A you are. I am pretty type A and specifically got silver shoes to match my silver-toned bridal jewelry and platinum engagement ring/wedding band.  However, some people wear mismatching jewelry etc all the time and don't think anything of it.  So it really depends on you.  

cruffino

personally, i think that metals look nice together. maybe i just like shiny things!? but i don;t see a problem in mixing metals, and i agree that you don't need to worry about the centerpieces.

climbingsingle

Out of all the weddings I have attended, not once did I even consider the centerpieces not matching the bride's attire. 

OHBride85

I think you will be ok.  I've been to a lot of weddings in the past year and thinking back on it, the brides wore silver jewelry while having one of the accent colors at the reception be gold! 

I don't think people notice these things so I say you should do what you want, it's your day!

melbenso

Wear what you want and what makes you happy.

I generally wear silver-toned jewelry (including my engagement ring, and my maternal grandmother's engagement ring, which I wear on my right hand), but will be wearing both silver and gold toned jewelry on my wedding day.  When she passed away my paternal grandmother left me a gold and diamond necklace that my grandfather had given her.  I plan on wearing the jewelry that both of my grandmothers left me when I get married, and if anyone doesn't like that it all doesn't match, that's their problem.

msuprincess04

Silver and Gold are neutrals, and go with everything, including eachother.

Fairyjen1

      I'm wearing the opal jewelry I inherited from my grandmother and it's in a gold setting. My engagement/wedding ring is silver and my headband or tiara will most likely be silver. 

      I've been to three weddings in the last year and I honestly can't tell you if all of the brides metals matched or if her gown matched the table linens. 

AddieCake

WAY overthinking.