How many ladies here popped the question to him?

Voxy Roxy

I know the guy "usually" does it, but in this day, it seems a lot more women are asking the question, including myself.

Any other women here who did the asking?

KytchynWitche

I thought about it, but a little digging turned up that he'd feel he missed something if he didn't get to do it. In the end we sort of decided together that it was time.

emmyg65

I asked him after he asked me. We talked about it a bit beforehand and he mentioned that he did want to ask me first. Otherwise, I would have asked him!

JaniV123

He proposed to me in Dec 14 and now I have to pop the Q to him too, we had made this agreement long time ago. His ring is ordered, more than half paid for and when I take it out I will be popping the Q dunno how yet

pinkcow13

My coworkers FI popped the question to him, at least that's how he tells the story. But to me, it sounded more like she brought up the conversation. They were at a cafe while on vacation and she was like "We should get married," or something like that, so they spoke about it, and agreed. So when they got back home, he went out and got her a ring, and then he popped the actual question a week or so later. 

firebabe6519

My college roommate asked her husband. Well more or less told him they were getting married. She is a speshul snowflake... I pity the poor guy.

pinkcow13

firebabe6519. I guess I didn't think of it because he was all "We're engaged!" and when I congratulated him he told me the story, but then made the remark "So yea, now I have to go out and get a ring." I wonder how she would tell the story...

Teddy917

I was going to but he wanted to.

clueclaw.defunct635777689035314155

I probably should have. I kind of nudged him to do it. We had already discussed marriage and knew we wanted to get married one day. After we knew we wanted to get married, it kind of flet like we were engaged.

However, it was going to be awhile until he asked, because he needed to save up for a ring. I said it was silly we were holding off because of a material object. I said if he wants to be engaged, we should just do it and worry about that later.

I think he wanted to pop the question, but he liked the idea of getting the ring later where I could help pick it out. He was so nervous about getting something I wouldn't like.

mrscaty

JaniV123 said:

He proposed to me in Dec 14 and now I have to pop the Q to him too, we had made this agreement long time ago. His ring is ordered, more than half paid for and when I take it out I will be popping the Q dunno how yet

Yup - this is what I'm doing too! Hopefully I can keep a surprise!!

lizandmark2014

My Cusin asked her FI. It worked for them. They have been married 7 years now and have a 4 year old and a 2 month old. I am pritty sure they discussed it before hand though.