Need to vent and can't to our families just yet.
So DH started interviewing for his dream job in the beginning of NOVEMBER (in another state). Had 4 phone/Skype interviews. They wanted to fly him out for a tasting, but with Thanksgiving they could not to it until of Dec 10th. He goes, said it went great. They said they had a few more tasting would get back to us "around Christmas".
Never heard from them. New Years comes and goes and DH sends a follow-up email around the 9th of Januaray. Basically saying "Happy New Year, hope the search is going well. Any feedback you can provide me would be helpful". Gets a reply saying something like "tastings got behind because of the holidays will be in touch soon."
In the meantime, our lease is up today. The manager is awesome. We told him the deal back in December and he has been great. Fact is we do like it here and he does like his job, it's just the other job is really a dream job. So on Tuesday we told the manager we would renew (but have not actually signed it yet).
This morning DH checks his email and the job sent an email overnight asking if he was still interested. Really? Of course he emailed back saying yes, but how long do we now have to wait to see if he is actually getting an offer or not? GRRR
Oh and DH just bought a huge ass TV for the Super Bowl that has not been delivered yet and not sure it will on time. (mind you our 55" is just fine) And we are having a super bowl party with a bunch of chefs and now I'm intimated about cooking for them. I asked DH if he wanted me to make a crockpot of meatballs for sandwiches. He said "Um, nooooo, you don't have to". Which of course I took as "sorry baby they are not good enough for the chefs".
Thanks for letting me vent. Short day work day then I think wine is in order.
*** UPDATE
DH is their number 1 canidate. They say they are a little concerned that he has changed jobs twice in 3 years and that he is more of a hotel chef not a private club chef. Both very valid concerns. He assured them that the only reason he even applied for this job not a full year after taking his current job was he really wants to get back into private clubs. He let them know we were about to renew our lease and if he doesn't get this job he was going to stay at his current job. It was just one of those things that when your dream job comes up you have to go for it. (private club chefs have a history of staying in their position for many years so they just don't come available as often).
He has to send over 6 references to them and we should here back soon. 3 of the references are from directors of private clubs who have worked with DH in the past and can contest he is prefect for the job.
We might be moving soon !!!
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