So I came home to my parents house last night and there were 7 RSVPs waiting. Yay! I like receiving them in the mail. I open them and see one was saying that they were coming, no name, boo LOL but I know that happens so I'll wait until the deadline when I need to make calls. I then open another one and I'm looking at the names and in my head I'm like, "I don't recognize these names." I call FI and he said he will call his parents, but that he didn't recognize them either. I decided to look up the girl's name on on FB just to see. Well there she was, so I browsed her page and I'm like "this chick looks familiar" and she is also friends with FIs cousin so I know that somehow they know FIs family.
FI calls me back and said he did the same thing with FB. Apparently the guy is the son of his moms friend, whom we invited. FI told his mom and she is so livid. It appears that her friend gave the invitation to her son and his FI. What the conversation was I have no idea. But FI mom said she was going to handle it, so hopefully she does.
I told FI that I don't care, I don't know them and its beyond rude to RSVP to a wedding that you clearly weren't invited too. I get that FIs family isn't used to these types of formal events, they are used to throwing parties and if you come. you come you don't, then you don't. Everything is a BBQ at someone's house and this is the first formal wedding in their family in like forever apparently. I also told FI that if they do decide to show up even after being told they aren't invited, they are SOL. They won't have a seat assignment and everything that goes along with that.