So FI and I were at his BMan apartment over the weekend, just hanging out. They were discussing FIs bachelor party since their original plan fell through. Then BMan asked me what I was doing for my bachelorette party and I responded I don't think anything is going on because I haven't heard anything and no one approached me with ideas. Well BMan was so upset that he offered to plan one for me. He was honestly more upset than I was/am.
Apart of me is a little bummed now that it appears I'm not having a bachelorette party, but I feel like I shouldn't have to plan this. I feel like if my friends wanted to do something they would. I know money is tight for my girlfriends right now, bridal party included. My sister, who is my MOH could care less about it and told me that if anyone did plan something she wouldn't be attending, which is fine, my sister is very socially awkward. My other BM hasn't mentioned anything, but again I know money is tight, though a few of us girls are getting together for her birthday this coming Saturday.
I guess I never really thought about it until BMan brought it up.