Need some advice:
I'm supposed to be going to Africa for work in May. I went to get the required vaccines today and I can't get them if I'm pregnant (we'll know by the end of the week). If I'm not pregnant and I get them, I have to wait 3 or so months before we begin trying again.
I work in the oil industry (so, mostly male) so I don't think many of my coworkers have had this problem. I don't want to stop trying but I don't want to have this conversation with my boss either. I don't know how that would even go. And, if I'm pregnant, that's a whole different conversation because I wouldn't be able to get the vaccines till I finished breastfeeding.
Any suggestions for how to have the conversation with my boss? Maybe irrelevant but just in case it affects your responses, my boss is a woman but she chose career over kids (as far as I know). Also, I've only worked here 7 months but she does know that I want kids.
UPDATE: Well, we're not pregnant yet. So, after a lot of discussion with H, I'm going to go ahead and get the vaccines next Tuesday. Mostly because, if I wait and the boss was understanding, it would be at least a year before I could get the vaccine (you can't until you stop breastfeeding). We're looking at it as 3 more months to save up money and finish unpacking our new-ish house. Thank you all for the words of wisdom last week.