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Oh Lawd...Just got Invited to a Buck and Doe

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For someone I haven't seen in two years and didn't really have anything more than a working relationship to start with.
Bonus note, she won a $15,000 wedding package at a bridal show. Tickets are $10.  There are so many things I want to say but don't know where to start...
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Re: Oh Lawd...Just got Invited to a Buck and Doe

  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    Just decline going. 
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  • beetherybeethery member
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    $15,000 and she's still have a $10/ticket party? You are busy. Real busy.
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  • SP29SP29 member
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    Just don't go if you don't agree. 
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  • LDay2014LDay2014 member
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    I couldn't believe it. My jaw dropped...
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  • JCbride2015JCbride2015 member
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    Yuck.  Just decline and don't give it a second thought.
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  • Jen4948Jen4948 member
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    Decline.
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  • blabla89blabla89 member
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    A what now? I've lived in Missouri and Georgia and I've never even heard of such a thing.
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  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    It's a wedding fundraiser that is popular in some places in Canada and some northern parts of the US.
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  • blabla89blabla89 member
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    AddieCake said:
    It's a wedding fundraiser that is popular in some places in Canada and some northern parts of the US.
    Yes, I'm familiar with a stag and doe, but buck and doe sounds ridiculously redneck-ish (again, coming from someone who's lived in Missouri and Georgia...)
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  • LDay2014LDay2014 member
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    yes, very redneck and common in my area but no - we will NOT be having one...you pay admission to this bride and groom and then play games for prized (of course you pay for each game).  There's usually light snacks, but any alcohol or substantial food you pay for as well.

    She won photography, flowers, officiant, dress etc....what else do they possibly want money for?!?!


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  • alpacalunchalpacalunch member
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    I'm sure they've found a way to justify being greedy.


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  • tortoisebridetortoisebride member
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    LDay2014 said:
    yes, very redneck and common in my area but no - we will NOT be having one...you pay admission to this bride and groom and then play games for prized (of course you pay for each game).  There's usually light snacks, but any alcohol or substantial food you pay for as well.

    She won photography, flowers, officiant, dress etc....what else do they possibly want money for?!?!


    Um, the honeymoon. Every bride deserves her dream honeymoon!
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  • Simply FatedSimply Fated member
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    tortoisebride said:


    LDay2014 said:

    yes, very redneck and common in my area but no - we will NOT be having one...you pay admission to this bride and groom and then play games for prized (of course you pay for each game).  There's usually light snacks, but any alcohol or substantial food you pay for as well.

    She won photography, flowers, officiant, dress etc....what else do they possibly want money for?!?!



    Um, the honeymoon. Every bride deserves her dream honeymoon!

    She could have just started a Honeyfund for that. Duh.
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  • ViczaesarViczaesar member
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    Simply Fated said:
    LDay2014 said:
    yes, very redneck and common in my area but no - we will NOT be having one...you pay admission to this bride and groom and then play games for prized (of course you pay for each game).  There's usually light snacks, but any alcohol or substantial food you pay for as well.

    She won photography, flowers, officiant, dress etc....what else do they possibly want money for?!?!


    Um, the honeymoon. Every bride deserves her dream honeymoon!
    She could have just started a Honeyfund for that. Duh.
    I doubt they think of it as an either/or!



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  • KeptInStitchesKeptInStitches member
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    It's such a shame you have to wash your hair that day, isn't it?
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