So an old friend of mine is getting married June 20th but FI and I declined. We were very obviously B-listed to this wedding and I haven't spoken to this friend in over a year, he hasn't met our twins yet (and they're 16 months old now), etc. So not exactly close anymore but we used to be very good friends. Should I still send a gift after their wedding? I was a little upset at the B listing but I wouldn't want to be rude or inconsiderate to him or his fiancée. Moneys a bit tight as our wedding is approaching so what would be an appropriate amount?