So, on Monday, one of my fiance's friend's fiancee messaged him on Facebook asking if I'd like to be her bridesmaid (weird?). He of course said yes and then realized his mistake. I told him he had to tell her (since he's the one who got me into this mess) that I simply can't do it due to my own planning. Also, I've only met the girl twice. Of course he got busy at work and did not have time to tell her before she messaged me.
I of course was polite and said I was honored but I just couldn't since I was in the middle of my own planning but I wished her luck. She persisted, saying that her wedding is November 2015 (mine is September 2015) and if I changed my mind she'd love to have me.
To make matters worse, the boys had a pact that they'd be in each others wedding, and now he's not even sure if he can do it.
And even worse, I feel bad. If she reached out to me, who she's only met twice, does that mean she doesn't have a lot of girlfriends?
I don't know what to do! I'm already in a tight spot financially and I can't take the added cost of being a bridemaid while trying to pay for my own wedding.