My family and future family has generously offered to throw me two showers. One is hosted by my two sisters (who kicked my mom out of the planning process, long story). The other I was told would be hosted by my FMIL with help from one FSIL (FMIL is the one who offered and coordinated the guest list; it's at her house) but the invitation arrived listing all 3 FSILs as the hostesses. (Well, FI's sister, FI's brother's wife, and FI's other brother's long-time girlfriend.) My gut feeling is FMIL still abides by the "parents can't throw showers" rule and listed the other girls to be old-school-etiquette-friendly and inclusive of the two girls I know haven't been all that involved. Fine, whatever. Not really the issue.
My problem is... what the heck do I give all these people to thank them? "Shop like it's her birthday" is great for my sisters, and even for FMIL who I know better (actually already bought her a votive holder that goes really nicely with the new light fixtures she just put up in her new house). But I don't know the FSILs all that well - we have next to nothing in common. I don't want to be super generic, but I also don't want to try to go super personal and miss the mark (or worse, be spot on for one and miss the others, and look like I care more about one than another).
I hate the generic "every chick loves shower gel" types of gifts. One FSIL is a professor in WI, has 2 little girls, and dresses in all Lululemon and Birkenstocks. One lives in NYC and likes crazy acrylic nail art, gold high tops and luxury handbags. One is a Muslim immigrant from Asia who works in finance and travels a lot. The only thing I know they all like is yoga pants and Starbucks but that sounds like a terrible thank you for hosting a shower. I don't know if any of them like massages.
HELP!
This is what I bought for FMIL (thanks, Mikasa sale).