I've got a dilemma - pretty big, I'd say and I feel awful over it. I got engaged over Memorial Day weekend this year and of course started thinking of who to be in the party. The MOH, BM, JBM and FG I'm happy with, as are they. I told a coworker friend I was engaged and she started pinning on Pinterest and sent me links for ideas. I think I asked because I felt obligated with her already pinning and gathering ideas it was the right thing. Her financial situation is very tight right now. I mentioned I wanted to ask 1 more person but was unsure as I was aware of their money situation. She told me to ask and let them decide. Now, I wish I had thought it over longer and not asked. Is there any way to fix the situation, or is it best to deal?