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Throwing myself a (hopefully well deserved) pity party. Just wasted two months of work!

I've mentioned in a couple of other posts that I am making quilts as thank you gifts for my wedding party.  I started with the quilt I was making for Dad, as it was the largest and most complex.  At 1,350 pieces, it's more than twice the size of anything else I'd attempted, and really, really, fiddly; pretty much every seam was diagonal.  

Last week, I finally managed to get myself down to 50 pieces.  I was so excited.  All the hard bits done, and just putting the blocks together!  Suffice to say, I was really, feeling terribly clever and accomplished.

The next morning, I found the door to my studio/guest bedroom ajar, which happens occasionally, because none of the doors in this place latch properly.  I also found that one of the cats had been in there (if only I knew which one it had been, then our household would be one smaller) and been disgustingly, violently, ill in my box of quilt blocks!  I actually did check both cats before freaking out too much, but they both seemed well, and were eating properly.

I'll spare you the details.  Many, many thanks to FI who very kindly washed the mess of the blocks, even though it nearly caused him to be sick himself, and more than once.  Cue the me rushing to the laundry, filling the tub with cold water and a copious amount of stain remover, and putting the quilt pieces in there to soak.  I had complete faith that this would all turn out alright.  I'd already used this stain remover twice on this particular quilt, which spectacular overnight results - once I nicked myself with my rotary cutter and managed to bleed all over my work table before I noticed it, and another time it got that brown iron-spit out, which I had been told by two ladies the age of my parents was nearly impossible.

The following day, I checked the sink, and there was very little improvement in the staining.  I cleared the water, and repeated the process.  Again, no change.  I tried three different stain removers after that, and FI suggested carpet cleaner, which just compounded the problem by making the colors run.  I think I tried just about every "uses household ingredients" solution the internet suggested, and still, my beautiful quilt blocks were kind of brown.  And how can I give my father a quilt covered in cat... well, you know what I'm getting at.    

It's been a sad realization, but unless you guys have any suggestions, I think I might have to call it on this quilt.  

I really don't have time to make another one, and I'm unlikely to be able to make complex quilts for everyone else.  So, now everyone is getting much less spectacular, simple quilts.  I spent somewhere around forty hours (that's FIs estimate, but I expect it to be higher) on this and produced absolutely nothing.  I don't even know if there's any way that I can recycle these blocks without tearing them apart, so, more labor, and the best I can do with that is to put the pieces in a pillow case, sew it up, and make a bed for said annoying cat/s.  

Sigh.  Not to mention that I tried twice to knit a hat today and just ruined it so badly both times that I had to undo it all and start again.  I'm putting that one down to being sick, and trying to learn how to do something new.  But things are not working out here.  

Thanks for letting me vent!
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Re: Throwing myself a (hopefully well deserved) pity party. Just wasted two months of work!

  • bwybwy member
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    As a fellow crafter, I know your pain! I've never done a quilt with smaller blocks than 8", so I can't IMAGINE the heartache you're feeling. Eat some of your favorite food and mope with some TV, if you're into that. 
  • I am so sad for you! I would be so pissed, but it sounds like you're being really calm, so good for you! I would probably be crying and drunk if it was the baby blanket I'm working on right now.
  • Thanks @RebeccaFlower.  I'm surprised I'm not crying.  I feel like I should.  There's already my blood and sweat all over this thing, tears seems fitting.  I think I'm a bit in denial.
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  • UGH cats. They probably wanted the nice soft quilt for a bed anyway, don't give in to them!

    In all seriousness, I am so sorry. I know stupid "asshole-cat" jokes don't help. It sucks when you've put a ton of time into something only to see it get ruined before it comes to fruition. But I can tell you from my perspective, if someone made me a hand made quilt, it would very quickly become my favorite present ever, even if it was made out of one GINORMOUS piece of hot-pink-zebra-and-leopard burlap (as long as the against-my-skin side was not burlap. You give me a burlap-lined burlap blanket, you're on the fast track to my shit list).

    Also - I dunno what sort of stain removers you've tried, and if the color has run it may not be worth trying anything else, but maybe an upholstery-type cleaner purchased from a pet store? I mean, those are DESIGNED to get cat- and dog-related messes up. My best friend swears by this stuff, Spot Shot. At one point her dog wound up puking/"other-ending" blood and yuck all over our apartment a couple of years ago, and you literally could not tell it was there after. It took some patience and work, though. Maybe look into it?
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  • Thank you @CaitTDid23.  I don't think my sewing machine would like burlap much.  I'll definitely look in to the Spot Shot for future messes, but I don't know what to do about the color having run.  It's just a big mess now.  
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  • I second the pet cleanering products. When we first moved in together, FI's dog managed to find chicken bones among other things in the garbage. He left a rather vile mess of browns, reds, yellows, and all things imbetween on my great grandmother's quilt. Nothing I tried was getting the stain out until I tried the Bissel pet stain and spot remover. That worked wonders! You can't even tell the stain used to be there.
  • Thank you @lovedryn.  I'll definitely look in to those.
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  • UGH. Thats rough. Hugs.
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  • Oh my goodness.  That sucks.  I second PP who recommended a pet store product, although it won't help the bleeding colors.  Does it look even remotely like watercolor?  Because depending on the style and patterns you have, maybe it would still work?  


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  • Thanks @Time2strtliving. Unfortunately the colored bits are batik, and the background is/was cream, so it does just look like a mess. Think, small child with rainbow ice-cream cone.
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  • Thanks @Time2strtliving. Unfortunately the colored bits are batik, and the background is/was cream, so it does just look like a mess. Think, small child with rainbow ice-cream cone.
    =(  I am so sad for you.   Is it the whole quilt or could you replace the ruined parts?  If you can't  I'm sure that the simpler quilts will still look fantastic. 


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  • Also a fellow crafter. I am so so sorry.
  • Thanks again @Time2strtliving. I have a couple of blocks that are useable, but not enough to make anything from. And because they're half blocks, I don't have any coordinating pairs. I really loved that pattern though, so will definitely make a smaller one for me once I have my wedding gifts done.
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  • Thank you @misshart00.  It's nice to know that other people can empathize.
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  • Thank you @misshart00.  It's nice to know that other people can empathize.

    Definitely can. I took a sewing class in high school (blow off class for me since I had been sewing for years) and everyone got to choose their final projects. Most people made a pillow or something similar. I made a wedding dress. People felt the need to keep coming over and looking with plates of food. Get away! It's not just money to replace something, it's time you can't get back.
  • CMGragainCMGragain member
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    I am an old-time hand quilter from the dinosaur days.  I was taught by a Mennonite lady in 1970.  I was one of the early members of the NQA (National Quilting Association) and subscribed to Quilter's Newsletter from the early beginnings.  Machine quilting and I do not understand each other.
    When my babies were little, they had lovingly hand made quilts.  They threw up and/or peed on them almost every day.  They look antique, and I wouldn't part with them.  One won a ribbon in a national contest.  Another was published in Quilter's Newsletter.

    There will be other projects dear to your heart.  Let it go. I understand.

    My daughter's MIL operates a professional machine quilting business in Maryland.  When daughter was worried about her bridesmaid's gifts, FMIL brought out a pile of lap quilts and said, "Here!  Choose some of these!"  Daughter was thrilled, and so were her bridesmaids!  FMIL got lots of thanks at the rehearsal dinner, too!
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  • The phrase "these (fur) kids are why we can't have nice things!" is said almost weekly in our house. I'm so sorry that all your hard work was ruined by your critter.
  • Thank you @misshart00.  It's nice to know that other people can empathize.
    Definitely can. I took a sewing class in high school (blow off class for me since I had been sewing for years) and everyone got to choose their final projects. Most people made a pillow or something similar. I made a wedding dress. People felt the need to keep coming over and looking with plates of food. Get away! It's not just money to replace something, it's time you can't get back.
    That's the problem.  I assume there's actually not a huge amount of money in this particular quilt top, and even if they were, two months of leisure time is a lot, and there are so many memories associated with that period (like, wedding dress and shoe shopping) that I would have associated with that quilt.  But, I can't get angry at the stupid cat seeing as I don't know which one of them I should be angry with.  Seriously, it's not really their fault.  How do they know the difference between my box of quilt pieces and anything else.  Not like people.  I hate it when groups are just plain disrespectful like that.  Do you still have that dress?   I'd love to see pictures!
    CMGragain said:
    I am an old-time hand quilter from the dinosaur days.  I was taught by a Mennonite lady in 1970.  I was one of the early members of the NQA (National Quilting Association) and subscribed to Quilter's Newsletter from the early beginnings.  Machine quilting and I do not understand each other.
    When my babies were little, they had lovingly hand made quilts.  They threw up and/or peed on them almost every day.  They look antique, and I wouldn't part with them.  One won a ribbon in a national contest.  Another was published in Quilter's Newsletter.

    There will be other projects dear to your heart.  Let it go. I understand.

    My daughter's MIL operates a professional machine quilting business in Maryland.  When daughter was worried about her bridesmaid's gifts, FMIL brought out a pile of lap quilts and said, "Here!  Choose some of these!"  Daughter was thrilled, and so were her bridesmaids!  FMIL got lots of thanks at the rehearsal dinner, too!
    That's  a lovely story about your daughter.  I admire your hand quilting more than I can say.  I've only been doing this since last year, so I'm with machine quilting all the way.  There's a lady about an hour away who rents her machines out, and I'm learning how to use the long arm.  I still send most of my work out.  

    I've still got things from when I was a child that had endless amounts of baby mess on them.  I don't have a problem with that at all.  I feel like the baby mess is, in itself, is somewhat nostalgic.  I still think I'm going to have a hard time presenting my now slightly brown, slightly young child with rainbow ice-cream cone" quilt to my father and tell him that the cat he hasn't even met (and he doesn't like cats anyway) decided to contribute.  You're right.  I was hoping you'd have a super suggestion for this one, because your posts are always helpful, but I think I just need to cut my losses.  Maybe I'll head out to the fabric store today and get some inspiration.

    Lol @NavyBlue143!  Our fur babies ruin everything!  This is actually the second quilt the cats had a go at.  I managed to save the first one though, although I wasn't sure it was going to work out.  That was just because they got into a bunch of pieced bias strips, and they were all warped.  But I managed to get that one together tolerably well.  But the dog count (of things I actually care about) is two wallets, my favorite pair of shoes, several hair brushes, and did you read the thread where I commented about how he ate my E ring?  Just pulled it off the table and swallowed it.  Cat count extends to anything and everything covered in or made of fabric or carpet.
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  • The crafter part of my brain is weeping for you. Many hugs for you, friend.
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  • Thank you @Inkdancer.  I much appreciate the hugs.
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