Okay, so long story short (and through a technical glitch) we had to re-shoot our engagement/family pics.
I've had a really shitty couple of weeks with stress, FI, kids, the dog eating my birth certificate, pneumonia, the backyard etc. At least I know that it will all be over in two weeks after the wedding. So I was so happy when the photographer dropped by with the pics.
Someone tell me we're pretty, even if we're not. I just need to hear rainbows and butterflies today.