So, apparently my SIL invited her mom and some aunts to her bachelorette party (a weekend at a nice resort in SoCal). Now it's time for my wedding, and I mentioned to my mom my friends and I were thinking about renting a cabin in the woods or on a beach for a long weekend. She informed me she and many of my aunts plan to come to my bachelorette party. Since SIL invited her mom and aunts, there is "no way" I can have mine without her being there.
Um...is this normal?!? 2 of my bridesmaids have said NO WAY and 1 indicated they would not attend if "adults" were present. They felt they couldn't relax or have fun if they need to worry about my mom or aunts being around. And we DEFINITELY couldn't talk about the men currently or formerly in our lives (like many other groups of females, our conversations get explicit sometimes when we're hanging out sharing wine). I also rarely see 2 of my bridesmaids, so I really want a weekend where we can spend time together and relax without any added stress.
Thoughts? Did any of you have your mothers at your bachelorette party, or attended any where the bride's mother or aunts were present? If so, how'd it go?