My DH and I have had the discussion on kids and had it over and over again. We want kids but after being around our friends with kids or our nieces and nephews we're worried. We're worried about parents today who seem to take this approach of not disciplining or teaching their children. Or taking the approach that they're better then the teachers and the school system.
We see kids who are terrified of everything and who each have a separate meal at dinner time (separate from the parents and separate from each other). They seem to have no discipline and when problems arise at school - it's the schools fault, not the kids or the parents for never teaching the kid manners. And on another side we're worried about the parents - do we have to worry about how we discipline, educate, or allow our children to grow, because if another parent doesn't agree with it they'll call the cops? Example - one local woman recently was arrested for allowing her child to go to the playground two houses down alone at 10 years old. I did this when I was 7 or younger with my older brother when he was 10.
We'd love to have kids but are worried we won't be able to teach them and educate them the way we'd like to because if other parents don't agree with it - we could end up with a visit by CPS. NOTE: I'm not talking about discipline as in hitting, I'm talking about discipline as in sending a kid to time out - seriously I had a friend yell at another friend because it was 'cruel' to the child.
That being said I do not want my kids to be raised to think that separate meals will be allowed and that temper tantrums are accepted. Is anyone else nervous about this? How do you calm your fears?