SO....... Kind of long winded question
My fiance and I have come to the conclusion that absolutely no one (including ourselves) are "dancers." No one enjoys getting out on the dance floor whatsoever. So having a traditional wedding where you have a DJ or a band and the entire reception basically is run by the entertainment/dancing is just not for us. Also, my fiance doesn't drink. No problems with alcohol or other people drinking, but its just not for him. Our wedding guest list is about 75, we are guessing it will end up being between 50-60 people. So not a huge wedding.
We are loving having a loooooonnnnggg engagement, not looking to rush into anything but I am loving the planning and taking my time. We are getting married in October of 2016, on Cape Cod. We have a few ideas- renting out a neat restaurant (I'm a chef) or a really nice big luxury home for a long weekend. We've thought of just having a real laid back weekend, having a good low key band play and just have a laid back, backyard party type feel.
But I'm afraid with it being so informal, that it will take away the "wedding" feeling. I still want to have that special day feeling. Haha maybe I'm just thinking way too into this. I'm way too worried about everyone invited having a great time that I don't even KNOW what I want. So i'm looking for some suggestions, reccomendations, advice, etc. Anything is more than welcome and will help alot. Thanks so much.