So BF got "and guest"-ed this weekend. Not a big deal in the grand scheme of things, but long story short (and will keep it ambiguous in case they read here-though I doubt it because they know eff all about etiquette):
Got an invite to an event from close family members within my extended family. These people have spent many holidays with BF and I, fully know his name, even have him on facebook and I think his phone number. I'm very close with one of the family members and couldn't help but jokingly text "haha, you guys know [BF]'s name!" I know it's rude to call out other's rudeness, but I was hungover and grumpy, whatever.
Then I get a text back "Haha you only put their names on there for married couples, silly! It's what etiquette says" AS IF these people could school me on etiquette.
At this point I knew anything I said further would just make me look bad, and it's not my place to point out other's etiquette blunders, so I tried to be nice and shrug it off. But seriously, this pissed me off, probably more than it should have...just because they know us so well, they've even stayed at our place that we live together at... yet they can't write his name on a freakin' invitation? It takes the SAME amount of effort.
Anyway thanks for listening to my vent!