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Quitting a good job.

As of now, the plan is for me to quit my job at the end of January, to focus on my art. H believes I can make more money arting, and well, I'd like to at least give it chance. We're also planning to start TTC later in the year, earlier if we decide not to travel to Japan in the fall.

My dilemma is, our department has 4 people. 4 is a relatively new change, for the longest time we only had 3. 4 people makes scheduling a lot easier. My one coworker though, is due at the beginning of February (Surprise pregnancy. she found out when she was 5 months along). Which means our 4 person department would go down to 2 people. 2 people is not fun for scheduling. Both of my other coworkers are older, and one still has a kid at home. I like my job. I like my coworkers, and a major reason I haven't quit yet is, it's pretty dick to quit during the holiday season and inventory. I've discussed this a bit with my pregnant coworker, and she thinks I should give at least a months notice. I'm now wondering, if in addition to that months notice, if I should offer to stay on to help train or help with coverage until a new person is found and comfortable enough to be on the floor by themselves. H scheduled a trip for us at the end of January/beginning of February a few months ago, so I need to be off those 2 weeks, but could easily work a few shifts or whatever to make the transition easier for everyone else anytime thats not those two weeks. 

Thoughts? Am I overthinking this? 
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  • If I were you I too would feel guilty leaving and would want to try and stay to help as much as possible. It isn't necessary of you to offer 2 months, and to help with training, but I'm sure your coworkers would appreciate it if it is something you decided to offer! 
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  • I would have the same thought process as you. I always feel guilty leaving a job if I know they'll be short-handed. (When I quit my two-jobs-ago job, a ton of other people quit at the same time I didn't know they were going to do that). 

    If it makes you more comfortable, offering to help train someone is awesome, but don't push it. If the boss doesn't think it's necessary, then be on your merry way and don't worry about it anymore. 

    Also, set a clear boundary for this. If they want you to stay and help for a little longer, ok, but by X date you are done no matter what. (I think it sounds exciting and awesome that you're giving your art a chance, and you shouldn't let these work commitments derail you from that, cuz there's always going to be an excuse NOT to go after your dream, but there isn't always going to be an opportunity to go after it) 
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  • I was stuck at a job I didn't like for about two years because people kept leaving around me and I felt obligated to stay. Oh, I can't leave now, so and so just quit, if I left now this person would have to do all this extra work! I finalized realized that there would never be a perfect time to leave and I deserved for it to be my turn.

    Giving more notice is a very polite thing to do, but staffing problems at your employer isn't your fault nor is it your problem. It's up to them to solve. I would not feel like you can't leave just because they are understaffed. 
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  • I agree with boundaries. My boss seems to have a history of convincing people who are leaving to stick around for a few extra months, and then random days after that, to help. Don't let yourself get sucked into helping TOO much.

    and...what kind of art do you make???

    I've been feeling "meh" about work lately. I got an MFA, and I am not pursuing my art or teaching, the way I planned to, because I found a job with a much better salary than adjunct-ing would allow. But... yeah. I feel sad about it. It's new enough that I haven't worked out how to make time for my own practice yet, on top of working this job.

    I'm really excited to hear that you're making your art a priority, and I'm going to live vicariously through you for the moment. kthanks.
  • You are certainly not obligated to offer more than a two weeks notice, but if you are comfortable with it, and your boss agrees, what about working out a PT arrangement for a set amount of time? My husband negotiated to work 3 days a week for 2 months while they searched for a replacement. He was able to keep his benefits, while also giving himself some time off. It's worth a shot if you aren't dying to get out of there. 
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  • daria24 said:
    You are certainly not obligated to offer more than a two weeks notice, but if you are comfortable with it, and your boss agrees, what about working out a PT arrangement for a set amount of time? My husband negotiated to work 3 days a week for 2 months while they searched for a replacement. He was able to keep his benefits, while also giving himself some time off. It's worth a shot if you aren't dying to get out of there. 
    This is what I was going to suggest.

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  • lilacck28 said:
    I agree with boundaries. My boss seems to have a history of convincing people who are leaving to stick around for a few extra months, and then random days after that, to help. Don't let yourself get sucked into helping TOO much.

    and...what kind of art do you make???

    I've been feeling "meh" about work lately. I got an MFA, and I am not pursuing my art or teaching, the way I planned to, because I found a job with a much better salary than adjunct-ing would allow. But... yeah. I feel sad about it. It's new enough that I haven't worked out how to make time for my own practice yet, on top of working this job.

    I'm really excited to hear that you're making your art a priority, and I'm going to live vicariously through you for the moment. kthanks.
    I went to school for animation, so I stick more to comics. I've been painting a bit more recently, so I'm going to try and build both an illustration/cartoon portfolio and a more "fine art" portfolio. 

    I'm also making myself start a webcomic, if only because consistently updating does wonders for ones drawing ability. 

    A psuedo part time schedule might be nice. I'm absolutely terrified that for at least a few months, possibly longer, I basically won't have any income. Sure H knows this and has no problem with it, but man, it scares the shit out of me.

    I'll talk a bit with H when he gets home tonight, (unless he's groggy. he apparently picked up a sore throat at his conference) He'll probably say I'm being too nice, but as long as I have off for our vacation, he won't mind too much.
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    chibiyui said: lilacck28 said: I agree with boundaries. My boss seems to have a history of convincing people who are leaving to stick around for a few extra months, and then random days after that, to help. Don't let yourself get sucked into helping TOO much.

    and...what kind of art do you make???

    I've been feeling "meh" about work lately. I got an MFA, and I am not pursuing my art or teaching, the way I planned to, because I found a job with a much better salary than adjunct-ing would allow. But... yeah. I feel sad about it. It's new enough that I haven't worked out how to make time for my own practice yet, on top of working this job.

    I'm really excited to hear that you're making your art a priority, and I'm going to live vicariously through you for the moment. kthanks.
    I went to school for animation, so I stick more to comics. I've been painting a bit more recently, so I'm going to try and build both an illustration/cartoon portfolio and a more "fine art" portfolio. 

    I'm also making myself start a webcomic, if only because consistently updating does wonders for ones drawing ability. 

    A psuedo part time schedule might be nice. I'm absolutely terrified that for at least a few months, possibly longer, I basically won't have any income. Sure H knows this and has no problem with it, but man, it scares the shit out of me.

    I'll talk a bit with H when he gets home tonight, (unless he's groggy. he apparently picked up a sore throat at his conference) He'll probably say I'm being too nice, but as long as I have off for our vacation, he won't mind too much.


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    This is my situation right now, too. We agreed that I was moving to his city by the end of the year, and since he has two full-time jobs, we can afford for me to move even if I don't have a job yet. I've been sending out resumes like crazy, but not getting a ton of calls. I had a really promising interview, but they ended up hiring someone less qualified that they can pay less (I'd be taking a significant pay cut to be at the highest end of their pay range, which is fine for me, but they opted not to roll with that). I'm wondering if I'll have better luck when I actually live in the same city as the jobs I'm applying for. I'm
    terrified of not having a job. I'm incredibly independent and this is such an uncomfortable position to be in. I feel your pain on that. 

    What I've done with my job is told them about a month ago that I'd be leaving in mid-December, and worked with them to determine who will take over my accounts, and started training those people on them. I submitted my "official" notice today. So I'm still giving them 3.5 weeks notice. 2 months notice is a lot, but in your situation it makes sense. I think the option of a part-time schedule while they train your replacement would be the best of both worlds -- they aren't totally boned without you there, and you have more time to work on your art and not feel bad about leaving. 
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