So I had already decided that I wasn't inviting all my aunts and uncles my parents both have 8 brothers and sisters. Our budget was for 70 people now I can't get it below 90 (oh joy) then my mom chimes in and we get in an argument have you finished the guest list...which I had. She then tells me I want all my brothers and sisters invited. They are my siblings and they need an invite even though I know they won't come. Well let me give you a run down my aunts who are dear to me and I'm very close with absolutely can't stand two of the wife in laws. I honestly can't either. My mom says oh they won't come but they are very spiteful people and I think they would come. So here's my wedding and there's people I can't stomach at it. Long story short my mother says I Will pay for all my family who comes. Boom I'm screwed and what else can I say?? I want to scream so what if some of them don't come what if they do and cause a problem?? Then that leads me to having to invite the rest of my dads siblingings. I want to scream! Any suggestions??