My fiance and I are both secular Jews, but we are having a Jewish ceremony with a reform rabbi, so the ceremony is pretty lax in terms of religiousness.
In Jewish weddings, both parents walk the bride down the aisle. My father has not been in my life since I was a small child and I’m fine with that. My mother for some reason thinks it may be seen as a faux pas if only a mother is walking the bride.
Both my fiance and I keep trying to tell her that it’s fine, and our rabbi said it’s 100% fine. I just know she is afraid of what “people will think”. Which is stupid because most people there are aware that my mother is the one who raised me and she is the one walking me.
Also, I don’t really have any male figure to even act as a “stand in”. In any case, my mother’s insecurity about it is wearing on me and making me worry that perhaps it’s “not okay” for just a mom to walk her daughter? I don’t even know anymore.
Still, I come to these boards for input from fellow brides, what do you think?