Got a sweet parting shot from former DH. He had stayed in my atheist group (you know, the one I basically grew from 70 to 450+ members, won awards for, and a few other things that make it so completely my space), for whatever reason. It felt like an invasion of privacy, but I kept my mouth shut.
The woman he had been flirting with/hitting on? She is part of the group. She unfriended him, sent a perfectly polite message telling him that we were good friends and she felt uncomfortable being his friend right now, but maybe in the future. She even made sure to comment that I had nothing to do with her decision, that I didn't even know they were talking. He was polite in her response back to her, basically, thanks for letting me know.
Former DH then messaged another leader in the group, and said that I was "poisoning" group members against him, that people had ignored him or shut him out, twisted the friend's quote to make it seem like I had asked her to unfriend him, and that he felt unsafe because of my tweet, "Former husband still invading my social circles, still can't find his own life I see." (which I fully admit was bitchy and mean...unsafe? And this is the only tweet since November. Though it's not fair to compare, let's go ahead and count the number of FB posts I've had to endure being called a thief, a cheater, and a "heinous bitch.") I didn't realize I hadn't blocked him on my Twitter account, so I did and locked it down for awhile too. I now wonder if he's creeping me here too. If so:
Yes, I realize exactly how immature I'm being.