Parents and Bridal Party Don't Read the Wedding Info I give them!? Instead they ask me over and over

*Barbie*

I think the OP's problem comes down to too much time spent making this packet and not enough time spent planning the party. If you apply 90% of packet making time to actual planning, she'd probably be done by now. 

gotta focus on value-added activities.

NOLABridesmaid

1. People don't read.

2. As a fellow attention to detail queen; I learned early that most people don't love the details like I do. That's perfectly ok.

3. All people care about is the when and where.