Hello! My fiance and I are trying to decide what things to incorporate in our ceremony and I'd appreciate some ideas! I have mixed feelings about writing my own vows. For one, I've been to weddings where couples write their own vows and sometimes I feel like I'm lost in a sea of inside-jokes or waaay too much personal information (I could share funny stories!) On the other hand, I would really love to share the feelings I have for my fiance. I know my fiance would not want to read his own vows in public. He's very quiet and doesn't often speak in front of groups of people and I don't want to make him uncomfortable. We were thinking of taking more traditional vows and selecting a poem or something special to be read in place of original vows. What do you think? Any other ideas? Thank you!