We are now 6 months post wedding. 1 year since his bachelor party.
I recently found out, via a slip up from my husband’s friend, that his “fishing in the middle of the gulf” bachelor party included a private party stripper coming to the lodge they were staying at.
He admitted to this happened and that he has consistently lied about it over the last year.
According to him, the stripper was fully nude (as in not even panties on), did a dance in front of him but “it wasn’t a lap dance”, whipped him with a belt while he was fully clothed and stood over him naked while she poured beer down his throat. Apparently he didn’t touch her in any way and he quickly “got out of the action” as soon as his part as the bachelor was over.
I’m obviously devastated, but I don’t know what the proper way to handle this is...I don’t feel like this is divorce worthy, but....I’m having all these thoughts—like am I even getting the full story now?
He mistakenly tried to prove he wasn’t hiding anything further and let me search his phone and all that did was confirm his involvement with confirming the stripper and that he was simultaneously texting me (lying) conforming me there was no stripper coming to their lodge.
.....advice?