Dear Prudence,
I have been married almost 40 years. I love to hang out and talk with friends, and my husband doesn’t want to socialize. Lately he is much worse than before and acts obnoxious when we are with a group of friends, even people we’ve known for years. He complains that our group dinners last too long, and he doesn’t want to stay at a meal for hours. At our last get-together I was having a good time, and he just got up, said he was leaving, and walked out of the house. He didn’t give me time to say goodbye and embarrassed me in front of our friends.
Then at home he acted like I did something wrong and was obnoxious to me, threatening to leave. He doesn’t care that I was enjoying the company, just decided to go. I am 65 years old and do not want to get divorced or be single, but his selfishness is making me miserable, and worse I feel his attitude will isolate me. He has no friends of his own.
—Anti-Social Husband