Alright, you guys can tell me if I’m crazy or not.heres my dilemma:corona has caused so much stress for us as I’m sure it’s caused for you guys. We’ve had to postpone once and every day it seems our venue tells us something different that we’re not allowed to do or makes new rules regarding what we can and can’t have (strange, we’ve been in phase 2 for a while now, things shouldn’t be constantly changing).anyways here’s my bridesmaid woes.My bridal party first of all is super small it’s my younger sister who is 24 my other younger sister who is 19 and my cousin who is 22.The 24-year-old sister and I always have had a tremulous relationship and it’s very love-hate. There’s always been a ton of competition between us for some reason and I can’t stand it I wish we could just get along and not have the constant competition of who is better prettier and more successful etc. it’s very juvenile I know...so I let them choose the dresses that they were getting and it took them forever to choose nothing was good enough nothing was pretty enough etc. etc. they finally find their dresses and order them.THEN 24 year old sis gets pregnant by guy she just met and then she has a shotgun wedding all within 5 months!! I couldnt help but feel like she was trying to “beat me”. Then we couldn’t find a new dress for her. (She grew out of the old one). It was so much drama trying to find a new dress that she liked and that fit her. I bought her a dress but of course it wasn’t cute enough now... three weeks before my wedding luckily the dress that she FINALLY decided on and purchased came in but not without stressing me out to the max worried she wouldn’t have a dress that worked for the wedding.. ps. It’s not even in the right color but whatever, I guess I have to pick my battles.So our wedding is in less than three weeks… And younger sister informed me that she planned to go on a trip to California one of the highest Covid states the week before our wedding. I’m LIVID. Obviously. (My cousin lives in SD and I know talked her into making a trip out there before she comes here for the wedding). They are trying to keep the out-of-town guest list to a minimum but there are obviously some people that have to fly in that can’t be helped. My sister is WILLINGLY doubling the risk because in her words “she’s bored”. So I obviously let all the stress get to me, yelled at all of them. And kicked them all out of the wedding. Pregnant sister is demanding I “fix everything” and “apologize” but I’m PISSED. And I dont feel I’m in the wrong! This entire wedding with them has been a NIGHTMARE. They’ve made everything so difficult. Everything has been a battle. For ex: When we first got engaged they will get upset when I would bring up a bachelorette party and daydream or try to think of fun ideas for us to do. “You never want to talk about meeee” “you never ask what’s going on in MY life” which isn’t true!!! And now that my sister is pregnant that’s all that we ever talk about!!! Anyways, help! My fiancé still wants his four groomsmen on his side and doesn’t think that it’s fair for him to have to kick out his entire wedding party just because my bridesmaids suck, and I agree!!!
I forgot to mention that the pregnant sister planned to have her gender reveal the month of our original wedding and then was talking about having a baby shower a few weeks before our rescheduled wedding date! Coincidence???I wouldnt be as upset with pregnant sister if I felt that everyone was equally supportive and happy for eachother with all of their life changes. But being so berated for talking about our engagement or future wedding but then the hypocrisy of wanting to talk about her baby all the time? Anyways, YEAH whole lotta fam drama!I kicked out the third bridesmaid because she was arguing with me about statistics regarding corona and was the one convincing my 19 yr old sis to come out and visit her THE WEEK BEFORE MY WEDDING. At this point I don’t even expect them to help out or do any bridesmaid duties all I expected from them was to show up and be in their dress and not risk their health and everyone else’s health if it could be avoided! So this leaves me with a question would it look weird if he had four groomsmen up there and I just had no one? I think it’s worth cutting all my bridesmaids because it also cuts the headache
How’d you predict a dd @charlotte989875 and @ei34? Eta to add thanks! Didn't get around to this till now