Hello everyone,
New here, but I was wondering if someone could help me with this issue. It goes without saying that the pandemic this year has really caused a lot of stress.
We decided to downsize and limit the our wedding ceremony to family. We've contacted everyone who had already RSVP'd to check their status and let them know the changes. However, we did have a large number of people from our original guest list that did not RSVP. We hadn't sent out RSVP reminders because it was the middle of the initial lockdown, and we didn't know what was happening with the wedding until recently. Now it's just a few weeks until the wedding.
Should I contact all these people and officially tell them that they are uninvited? If they did not RSVP in the first place, I don't want to add to the awkwardness and my stress. However, even in normal times weddings have trouble with people showing up anyways (which would be unfortunate if they did because the location is now different from the original invitation soo...). I feel like I emphasized enough to check our website, and I provided several means of contact for both myself and my fiancé if they really wanted to check in on the situation.
I'm worried that people will get mad at me for not updating them, but again...if you didn't RSVP how would I know you were planning on coming?