Say something, but he doesn't seem that into you.

mrsconn23 · November 2023

I was on an epic vacation and posted pictures on Facebook for 10 days. My friend-with-benefits never “liked” any of my posts or pictures. But he was online liking other women’s posts/pictures during that time. After I asked why, he said he was busy and was going to suggest lunch to review them, but didn’t until I said anything. Am I reading too much into this? Is he sending a message?

—Guessing

banana468 · November 2023

You are not in a relationship with him. But also he may not be your friend. The m message is, "Find someone else"

VarunaTT · November 2023

People really do not understand the rules for the FWB in their lives, either for themselves or the FWB.

He's a FWB, he doesn't need to be liking your photos in the first place and you shouldn't be caring if he does/n't.

Also, FB shows me stuff at super weird times and I have given up on trying to figure out the algorhythim. In my mind though, the only reason for LW to be caring on this level, is b/c LW wants more than FWB.

charlotte989875 · November 2023

Yah I think LW wants to be more than FWB and that’s fine, but he didn’t do anything wrong here. Think about what you want and ask for it. If he’s in, great, if not decide what you’re going to do knowing he really only might be here for the sex.