I need thoughts on this... My fiance and I want a nice wedding! One problem... we're going to have to pay for it all ourselves!
We are planning to get married at the JP soon so that we don't have to wait. Money is the only thing holding us back from getting married RIGHT NOW. What are your thoughts on having a very nice vow renewal ceremony and reception like a year or so later so that we can save and plan and still have something very nice? I don't want to not have it and cheat ourselves out of that. Can we still do the whole bridesmaid and groomsmen thing?Thanks for the help! I'm kind of torn! I'm a girly girl and want the dress and the cake and the whole nine yards, but we're making ourselves crazy waiting for all of the "fun stuff" that comes with marriage. His father is a pastor, and our religion is a factor... so you can understand what I mean by "fun stuff!"