Ok, so I have a gorgeous ivory halter dress for our outdoor wedding. We have less than 3 weeks left and my fiance is adamant that he is not going to wear a tuxedo. He wants khakis and a button up shirt, and he wants his best man (which is his 9 year old son) to wear a polo shirt. Besides that disaster, he wants to wear white shirts. Do you think (like I do) that white shirts will clash with my ivory gown in photos? And does anyone else think 'polo' shirts are too....dress down? It's a casual wedding, nothing formal, but I would feel 'too dressed up' in comparison. I'm all for them changing the color of the shirts to a clover green, which is one of my wedding colors, but he thinks thats ridiculous. Agh! My father is going ot walk me down the aisle and my fiance is also demnding that my father wear EXACTLY the same thing he is wearing....the khakis and plain button up shirt....even down to the shoes (he wants 'boat shoes!') Look...am I crazy for thinking he's crazy? And what is your opinion? I'm about to pull my hair out!