I am having a beach wedding in june of 2012 in california. Among my bridal party I am also including two kids (not mine or his ) that I adore. The girl is 6 yrs old and her brother is 8. Normally I could have them act as ring bearer and flower girl, however we cannot have flowers on the beach and MOH and BM well have the rings. Its really important to me to have these kids as a part of my big day..... Any suggestions on special jobs to give to them?