Last night my FI called with some [whati thought was good] news. My brother-in-law, who is also his best friend, best man, and also in the navy, was scheduled to deploy on 1 Nov. They cancelled his deployment!! BUTTTTT now the next time they need someone he has to go, which could be in a couple of months meaning.... he will be deployed during my wedding.
Trying to be ok with the fact he might not be there was hard enough, I made the joke last night "well honey, at least you will still be here for our wedding"
I got the call about an hour ago. A bunch of deployments have been getting moved around and the course he teaches out of state was moved also... Right into our wedding date. As of now, he will not be here. This is not set in stone and maybe he can take some leave but nothing is definate. And changing the date is hard when we have to work around his daughter's school schedule (daughter and i dont live near FI)and his other courses.
It is just really hard for me not to jump and say that our day is ruined and we have to figure something else out. I just bawled for an hour, im so sick to my stomach. I swear the military is out to get me right now