My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 years and he is joining the Navy. We've decided to get married before he leaves for bootcamp in about a month, so we don't have the time or money to have the wedding we'd really like to have. We decided the best thing to do would be to have a courthouse wedding and then later on we'll have a wedding with all our friends and family. We're still young and I know my parents won't be happy with my decision. I don't want to cause problems with my family, but I also know what I want. What would be the best way to tell them about my plans and deal with the aftermath that I'm sure will follow?