So my fiance and I just graduated college and are starting our "adult" lives in a new town. He hasn't been involved in the church he grew up in since we grauated high school and the pastor of the church I grew up in has moved away.
We have recently started going to a new church (like in the past 2 months) and really like the pastor there. He knew my fiance's grandparents before we started going there, but they have both passed away. How do we ask this pastor if he would officiate our wedding without looking like that is the only reason we started going to his church? We are getting married in 8 months, but I'm pretty sure he requires pre-martial counseling.
Help!