My boyfriend is stationed at Bragg and I live in Nashville,TN. We are planning on getting married next year, but I just lost my job and things are lining up for me to make the big move to NC. Here's the kicker though...My parents and family are gonna freak if I just pick up and move 10 hours away..especially to a guy I'm not married to. (They're very religious and against the whole "shacking up" deal as they put it) I also don't think they're gonna be to happy with a wedding in a couple months...I'm kinda stuck between a rock and a hard place. I want to move to NC and have a JOP wedding and tell my family that that is when we got engaged (It will make things a little easier if they think I'm living with a fiance instead of a boyfriend) and then start planning for our Wedding next year....How do I go about having a JOP wedding and what do I need to do? Is it possible to have a JOP wedding in NC, then have our big wedding in TN? Can't you get married twice ? Does this plan even sound realistic? I'd certainly appreciate any kind of a advice! Thank ladies!