rotc cadre - invite some or all?
hey there! my FI and I are currently in rotc and we're trying to plan who to invite.
there are obviously cadre that we feel a strong relationship with, then there are some cadre that we don't really interact with, or they are brand new.
if we invite some of them, would it be rude not to invite everyone? and we're not talking like 5 people here, it's about 15 cadre members and their wives. not to mention it's like a schoolyard and they all gossip so everyone would find out who got invited and who didn't.
is there protocol for this? i don't want to offend anyone, but we have to control our guest list!
thanks so much ladies!