So, after talking to the associate producer, and having some discussions with FI (and some of our friends), we have decided to go ahead with it!
We are sending in some final paperwork tonight (background checks, health forms, location releases). We may not find out for weeks what other weddings I am going to, and it may fall apart if other ladies can't make it to our date, but we have a very definite shot of being on the show!!
"You are made of win." -SopChick
Still here and still fabulous!