Ok... so this is my first post on here. I'm not even really sure if I want to do this lol.. I'm sort of a private person by nature. But I'll be interested to see the results I guess. Sooo here it is. I've known the man I'm dating for a year know. We've been dating exclusivly for the past 5-6 months. I haven't met his parents (he's met mine) and he hasn't told me he loves me yet. I HAVE been to his place of work (he's a firefighter) and met some of the guys he works with AND I've met, I would say, his best friend ( a guy he's known since he was 8). I know I love him...haven't told him that though. His best friends wife told him if he didn't marry me he was crazy...so I guess that's good. I'd just like to know if anyone has been here before. How long do I wait to give him time to figure out if I'm what he wants. I'm 33 and he's 38 so neither of us are spring chickens. Anyway, any comments or advice would be appreciated..... Thanks