It makes me nervous that neither of us our 'set' in a career. We are 26/27. I've been working in a career for the past 3 years, but I am going to law school next year.He just received his Bachelors and is going into business with a friend. (They already have several clients/projects for the fall).We will move next year, to the US for law school, and I will be unemployed, and my boyfriend will come either with me or if his business is doing well he would move a semester later.As we both talk about which State I should go to law school and where we plan to settle and make careers, it scares me that we are getting engaged/married even though we aren't settled yet and aren't entirely sure where or what we will end up doing with our lives. But we are sure that we want to end up with each other, and after 4+ years together we are committed to making sure no matter what our life decisions are, we make them together. In some way I feel the dilemma really tests our relationship. As deciding to get married means that our relationship is more important that a possible career opportunity that would not fit the others needs. (Although we are both very supportive and willing to move for the other person, but inevitably there are certain risks that committing yourself to someone could limit your future opportunities). What makes you nervous?I should say before I get comments that my boyfriend WANTS to move to the US, even more than I do. So we are not just moving for me going to law school.