About a year ago BF and I got an engagement announcement from a couple. He was friends with the guy in college, and we see them on occasion at parties and football games. The announcement said they were planning a Fall 2010 wedding, yadda yadda. This past week, all of our friends received save the dates from said couple for their wedding next July. We didn't get one. While part of me is almost relieved that we don't have to go to another wedding (because I'm pretty sure the bride doesn't like me for whatever reason), BF's initial reaction was "wow, that's sort of...tacky, isn't it?" I told him that while it's considered tacky to send a save the date and not send an invitation, I didn't know the etiquette rules of sending an announcement and no invitation.Anyone out there know the answer? Is he justified in feeling a little snubbed? Or does the "save the date = invitation" rule not apply to announcements?
My first love.
Me: 31 DH: 30
TTC since 10/2010.
2012: HSG showed unicornuate uterus on right side; both kidneys and both ovaries present. High risk for preterm labor, IUGR, and C-Section. Dx'd Hypothyroidism.
1st BFP: 10/27/12, cycle before we had planned to see RE