My boyfriend and I are basically engaged, just don't have a ring yet. We know we want to spend the rest of our lives together, and that's enough for us. We have sort-of a future plan, he's finishing up his degree in the next year, and I have always wanted to move south (I HATE snow.) I want to move before we get married, but he wants to wait because it would be more cost-effective to have the wedding at home. I suggested we move, but come back for the wedding. Advice?