Every time I have an irregular period (which happens kind of a lot, even though I'm on the pill), the "kids talk" happens, which I'm ok with discussing. Here's the basic idea: we talk about "what if" situations, where he says he's ok, and prepared to be a dad, and everything will be fine. I say that I'll stay home and raise the kid, which I would be thrilled to do, should this ever occur. When I finally get my period, he makes these comments like "you're never going to get pregnant", and "you know I don't want kids". But then, in a few weeks, he'll say things like, "if we had some savings, and were prepared, that would be ok". I have had gynecological problems in the past where my doctor doesn't think I even ovulate, or have ever ovulated, even when I was off the pill. He is so confusing sometimes!! Sometimes I wonder if he is secretly terrified at the possibility of being a parent, or if this change of heart is a blip? His brothers both have kids, and BF loves them dearly. He would make the most amazing father, but where the heck is he going with this???