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taking the good with the bad and being thankful!

Well, the bad... last week my boss decided to ask administration if she can approve us to work 32 hour weeks because of our light patient load. I was so upset because I really count on my paychecks right now with holidays coming up, traveling home for Christmas and to cover my student loan payments (among everything else). I felt like it was kind of a selfish move because she is always wanting to work shorter days so it works for her but kind of puts in me in a tough spot. And she is being a nazi about it... practically kicking me out of work even before my 6 1/2 hours are up sometimes. This week I don't even think I will have 32 hours! She tried to make me feel better saying that her son can make it on $(insert his hourly pay here which is a few dollars less than mine) so I should be fine. Seriously? I don't care about her sons income. That's irrelevant and she probably shouldn't be telling me how much he makes anyways. She also called our patients and arranged them all to come in before noon so I'm working in 20 patients between 7am-11am. Why can't I stretch them out between at least 7am-2pm so that I can at least get the 32 hours. BAH!

The good... for those who don't know me that well, I met my boyfriend when I was finishing school in Texas and have been here with him since (2 years). I miss my home in Wisconsin and my family so terribly. Well yesterday he called me outside to talk. He prefaced by saying "Now, don't go overboard with what I am going to say. Don't take it as a promise that it's going to happen, it just is what it is" and that type of stuff. Then he told me that if I wanted to look for positions back home that he thinks he could find a job up there too and he would be open to moving! This is the best news I could hear from him! Only problem is that I can't easily find a job ANYWHERE right now, but just that he is open to it makes me so happy and love him even more. It's such an unselfish move for him to offer to move with me so that I can be closer to my family. In the meantime, I might call every cancer center in greater wisconsin to see if they might be in need of a therapist!

What are somethings that your BF, FI, H does that makes you know without a doubt he is crazy in love with you?


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Re: taking the good with the bad and being thankful!

  • IrishDreamerIrishDreamer member
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    edited December 2011
    Karlee, that's great that your bf is willing and wants to do that! :) I hope you guys find what is best for the two of you!

    What does my BF do that makes me know he is crazy in love with me??

    You mean other than put up with my crazy asss??? lol

    Seriously, he is just a sweetheart. He deals with my crazy mood swings when I get stressed out, he takes care of me, truly wants me to do and have what makes me happy. He knows the little things make me happy, like getting my nails done, so he will ask every 2 weeks or so, "do you need to go get your nails done?" or tells me to go have a night out with myself or with friends when he knows I'm having a rough week. He just is very thoughtful.
  • edited December 2011
    That is sweet he is willing to relocate for you.  Hopefully you and he will be able to find work for both of you up there.

    It's the little things about my bf that I know he loves me.  He is able to joke and make fun of me, in a way that only someone who knew me so well could.  How thoughtful and considerate he is.  He makes the every day romantic and special.  I could go on and on but I won't.

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