Hello! I'm gonna introduce myself in the other thread, but I also wanted to say something here. I started seriously thinking about my future wedding a few months ago and got obsessively sucked into all of the wedding websites and blogs. I first checked out the NEY board thinking it would put my obsessing into perspective, like "Check out these crazy ladies! I'm not as bad as they are!" but instead I was really surprised by how, well, NOT obsessed you all are. It is great to read about other healthy long term relationships where folks are discussing marriage like adults. I am MUCH LESS wedding obsessed now. It's more of a hobby than an obsession - I'm sure some of you know what I mean! I'm looking forward to contributing to your discussions!!