Okay, it's the moment you've all been waiting for! I don't have the digital camera pics yet, but I do have a couple crappy cell phone pics. Here is what I did today (with a LOT of help from my friend):
We dyed my crinoline purple, following the advice
here:

I especially love the way the lace took on a darker color than the polyester of the skirt. FI said it looks like it was professionally done.

We tied ribbons and tags on the favors (sandalwood fans):

We stuck in a few orange and pink ribbons along with the purple, just to mix things up.
We filled organza baggies (in several shades of purple) with flower petals in orange, pink, and purple (and lavender to smell good!):

And that is my DIY-lite wedding stuff. It's pretty much the ONLY DIY I had planned... so.... I'm done! One day, not bad! What do you think? I'll post better (more true-to-color) pics when my friend sends them.