BF and I were talking, and we were discussing where we would want to get married. He mentioned that he would really like to get married in Chicago (where he's from), but I know that typically the bride chooses, and I'd really like to get married in my hometown. We finally decided that we'd talk more after I got a ring. I feel like I'm going to be planning most things, and it'd be so much easier if I was planning locally. I guess in the end it doesn't matter where, it's only one day, but I'd still like to get married in the church I envisioned. Did anyone else ever go through something like this? Any advice?