So, here's my first planning question --
Fi's littlest brother (he has 2 that are 12 and 16 on his dad's side) and his littlest brother, Nick, is 8. He's lived with Nick his whole life (unlike his other brothers, whom he's still close too) because Nick is his mom's other son. Nick has now gotten really excited about the wedding and told FI that he doesn't want to be ring bearer anymore (he's done it alot I guess) and he wants to be best man. Now, I don't think he really knows the specifics and things- I think he just knows that title and pulled it out of thin air. Originially we talked about him being ring bearer - and probably actually carrying the rings, but now we're not sure. FI doesn't want to make him best man because then he feels like he'd need to make his other 2 brothers the same thing - and he already planned on 2 of his best friends having the honor.
Question is - since he's 9 - I understand he's a little old for the ring bearer title (doesn't really bother me, my niece the FG looks older than she is) is there something else we could call him? Jr. Groomsmen has been thrown around - but, is there an even 'cooler' title to sell him on it? Honorary something-or-other? Just wondering. Just looking for ideas to give to FI so he can decide what to do. I think his other two brothers will be groomsmen (not junior) even though they are younger... just in case that helps answer my long-winded question.
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