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FI is back to work! and DIY STD's

As you ladies know - Mike got laid off 2 weeks ago and it hit us kind of hard being that technically both of us were unemployed. Since we just bought a house I admit I was more than nervous. He was working side jobs and filed for unemployment until yesterday.

He called his old boss to ask him about returning something and boss told him, "I was getting ready to call you - we want you back at work tomorrow, if you can." He immediately accepted but I said he needed to slow his roll a bit. In his job there's always lay-offs and his boss is an f-ing idiot who doesn't get contracts finished on time so his people have work.

So he went in this morning (hence why I was up @ 6AM) and told his boss that he needed a typed and signed agreement that he would not be laid off unless the company was completely going under and that he wanted a raise. The boss actually agreed and got a letter typed up for the accountant to look over and will have it notarized for Mike by the end of the day. Plus he got the raise because he boss said he was truly the top person on his list and couldn't afford to lose him permanently.

He is back to work today, we got our $8100 house credit yesterday (after only 4 weeks!) and I'm back in school still nannying. I am just breathing a sigh of relief and continuing to look for work on my end. 

That being said I am booking our December vacation and getting the hell out of Dodge for a bit! lol. 

Thank you to all of you who offered advice and kind words through all this mess. :)

ETA:

all done I think - I'm not sure but they will be magnets 
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Re: FI is back to work! and DIY STD's

  • MLekathLEENMLekathLEEN member
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    edited December 2011

    What a relief! I'm glad things are starting to look up. Where do you guys plan on going?

  • edited December 2011
    Thanks Ekath (I am still getting used to your new SN, lol) - I am not so sure, originally we wanted to take a cruise but I'm kind of "eh" about cruising in general. No Vegas because we've gone a bunch.

    My birthday is the 12th of December and I just want to celebrate it away from here. Any ideas on where to go? lol
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  • MLekathLEENMLekathLEEN member
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    edited December 2011
    I have tons of ideas! I'm assuming in December you'd want to be somewhere warm and without snow. A cruise would be awesome! FI found one that was about $350pp for 7 days in the Caribbean. Not sure who with or any other details though. I'd start signing up for differe airline, travel discount, and cruise lines email listings. That's usually the best place to find good deals if you don't have any specific place you want to go.
  • edited December 2011
    Glad to hear that everything is coming together for you guys... I can only imagine how stressful the past few weeks has been!
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  • edited December 2011
    You're so good at this, Kath! You know how it is since your in Michigan - you just wanna leave the snow behind for a quick second during the winter. It's so dreary and plus vacations are always a bonus. A 7 day cruise sounds a bit too long but I going to go sign up for Kayak and a few others I know of to see what comes up. Hopefully we can get a good deal. Airtran usually has great flight prices so I'll do their's too. Now I'm all giddy!

    Ooh, I forgot I made our Save The Dates: What do you think?


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  • edited December 2011
    Haha, thanks Dwest it has been stressful and I'm so thankful to be able to get some breathing room. All you ladies have been great in getting my mind off things though.

    *hugs*
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm not still sleeping am I?  Those STD's were not on there a few minutes ago when I posted before right?

    *I'm not crazy, I swear*

    Anywho... I think the STD's are really cute! 
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  • edited December 2011
    LMAO no dwest - i forgot to post them so I went back and did it --- it's too damn early and I'm delirous. I'm glad you like them I am still iffy but they are getting there!
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  • MLekathLEENMLekathLEEN member
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    edited December 2011
    I was like WTH, those weren't there a few minutes ago! They look great! I'm in love with that dress also.
  • edited December 2011
    That is great news!  And I love the STDs!
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  • loopy82loopy82 member
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    edited December 2011

    Congrats to FI!

    As far as a vacation - the past 2 years I have gone to Mexico in that general time frame - to the Playa Del Carmen/ Cancun area. There are some really nice resorts down there. If you are flexible with mid - early december I would play aorund with dates, as you can find some really good deals. That time frame is when I think is the cheapest for winter travel. That is actually about the time we are planning on Mexico for our honeymoon.

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  • edited December 2011
    Awww, I love the STD's! The little graphic on the bottom right hand corner is adorable. Also, congrats on your FI for getting back to work. That's really lucky. 

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  • edited December 2011
    Thank you ladies -- I am feeling much better today and Mike is too. He couldn't stand not working and all I want is for him to be happy. :)

    I am beginning to warm to the Save the Dates - not exactly what I wanted but I think they will work. Kath -Thanks, the dress is from Von Maur (not sure if there's one around you) it's actually a homecoming dress!

    Loop -- I can definitely be flexible with December dates (that's my only time off from school) and Mexico sounds awesome. I would love to go to Playa Del Carmen! Perhaps we will be there at the same time?? :)
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  • loopy82loopy82 member
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    edited December 2011
    Perhaps. We haven't booked anything yet. My dad gave us this time share week, and we are still looking at options. I want to get it decided because I want to start the countdown! :)  If you haven't already I would really advise checking out trip advisor about resort reviews. It is really helpful!
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  • breezerbbreezerb member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm a little late on this one but I just wanted to say congrats to you and Mike! It's seems like things are really turning around and headed in the right direction!

    And I really like the save the dates.  They are cute!
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm late too but thanks Breezer! Things really are doing a complete 180* for us right now and I am so grateful and thankful. All of you girls have been so amazing through my bitching and I appreciate it.

    Ok now I love the STD's. I'm ordering them!
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