I confess:

loopy82

I confess that I thought my diamond was going to be larger. Don't get me wrong I am totally and completely fine with the size of the ring. Previous comments that FI had made is what lead me to think this way. So he is the one who was responsible for putting that idea in my head.

chipypony

I like Jello shots but they give me a stomach ache if I have too many...and I get flustrated when they are difficult to get out. Also, they are hard to make when you are already intoxicated (ask my friend about what happened to her blackberry and why the screen is stained red....that would be a jello shot gone wrong).

My new favorite drink is this brazillian drink with Cachaca (alcohol from distilled sugar cane) mixed with sugar and fresh limes. They weren't kidding when they said its customary to make only one glass which gets passed around the party, if you drank the whole thing you'd probably be unconscious.


Oh and my friend is also very materialistic and she readily admits that, but he BF must know that because she only gets the best quality stuff. She had a meltdown one day because she had to use a porta potty.

loopy82

Button that would be horribly scary. That is how I feel in back hallways/ trash rooms of malls.

sapphirebaby926

I confess that I'm upset that my boss didn't give me a good enough reason to just up and quit today - I'd be perfectly happy being a SAHW right now.

I confess that I've been exceptionally bad about my birth control lately and I don't really care (I missed 3 in a row last week but I did get myself caught back up though)

ekathleen684

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[QUOTE]New confession: I want a kitty.  FI says the pugs are enough until we get a house, and I know he's right but this is the longest I've ever been without a cat and I miss having a kitty:(
Posted by PaigeMcC[/QUOTE]

What if a kitten just "happens" to be walking down the street all by its lonesome and looks like it needs a home?
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How could you say no to that face?!

When my mom was younger, she got a took and told my grandmother she found it on the side of a road with a can of dog food..it worked for her!

EDIT:: a dog, I have no clue why I put took or what a took even is. A mythical creature perhaps??

loopy82

I try to avoid porta potties at all costs. I will not have a melt down if I have to use one, but I will only use it out of absolute necessity.

slowdancin2rock

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[QUOTE]I confess that I'm upset that my boss didn't give me a good enough reason to just up and quit today - I'd be perfectly happy being a SAHW right now. <strong>I confess that I've been exceptionally bad about my birth control lately and I don't really care (I missed 3 in a row last week but I did get myself caught back up though)</strong>
Posted by sapphirebaby926[/QUOTE]

I confess I had to stop my BC because I'm going in for surgery in a few weeks, and I don't even want BF to look at me.

ekathleen684

I confess that I am going to go practice my tap routine in the bathroom. The recital is on the 19th and I plan on skipping class tonight so I need to get some practice in.

loopy82

I just found out that I don't have to leave tonight to go out of town. Yay!!! This makes me happy because FI is not going with me and he just got home yesterday after being gone for about a week.

dwest2201

Holding babies makes me really miss when my son was a baby and kind of makes my heart say "baby, baby, baby"... but I am not crazy,  I promise I don't need talked down or anything!

I really want a puppy, really really bad.  We are planning to get one in the Spring but I would go get one today if BF said I could.

I have been planning on going back to school for one thing and have recently been considering going back to the psychology degree that I am just short of but walked away from when my mother got ill.  I haven't told anyone this yet!

BF talks about needing to save money and put a ring on my finger (even though I have said I could care less about a ring) so that we can be engaged and move along the plans then he spends money freely and complains about being broke.  We are talking more about money as of late since we are moving in together so it isn't happening so much but it is something that bothers me.

My ex husband sometimes calls or I call him to talk about stuff with our son... occasionally he treats me like his long lost best friend and tries to talk about anything and everything.  It pisses me off, mostly becasue if it weren't for my son that I would have never spoken to him again after all the sh*t he put me through!

BF just finished the fire academy and is in much better shape as a result and it shows... not just with his shirt off (in the bedroom... well I guess his shirt is usually off then too)!   I was thinking last night that I need to get back to working out (I have had a crazy month and only worked out once in over 3 weeks!) so that I can keep up!

katanne9

I am in puppy mode to stave off baby mode for a few more years.

But I can't get a puppy now. : ( But I wish I could get one.

hetshup

I confess that I need a vacation and I don't care about the wedding anymore.

I confess I'm mildly annoyed at my MOH for not doing anything. Including getting her dress measurements

I confess that I want liposuction.

I confess that I really want the job I applied for yesterday, and I will be so sad if I don't. And I don't think I will 

chipypony

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[QUOTE]Holding babies makes me really miss when my son was a baby and kind of makes my heart say "baby, baby, baby"... but I am not crazy,  I promise I don't need talked down or anything! I really want a puppy, really really bad.  We are planning to get one in the Spring but I would go get one today if BF said I could. I have been planning on going back to school for one thing and have recently been considering going back to the psychology degree that I am just short of but walked away from when my mother got ill.  I haven't told anyone this yet! BF talks about needing to save money and put a ring on my finger (even though I have said I could care less about a ring) so that we can be engaged and move along the plans then he spends money freely and complains about being broke.  We are talking more about money as of late since we are moving in together so it isn't happening so much but it is something that bothers me. My ex husband sometimes calls or I call him to talk about stuff with our son... occasionally he treats me like his long lost best friend and tries to talk about anything and everything.  It pisses me off, mostly becasue if it weren't for my son that I would have never spoken to him again after all the sh*t he put me through! <strong>BF just finished the fire academy and is in much better shape as a result and it shows... not just with his shirt off (in the bedroom... well I guess his shirt is usually off then too)!   I was thinking last night that I need to get back to working out (I have had a crazy month and only worked out once in over 3 weeks!) so that I can keep up!
</strong>Posted by dwest2201[/QUOTE]

Thats the best part! My BF puts me to shame now he has lost so much weight and gained so much muscle, hes quite nice to look at. It sucks that all I can do is look.

I stopped taking BC since i moved because it has been making me very sick. I will have to go back on it before I see BF

ekathleen684

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[QUOTE]I am in puppy mode to stave off baby mode for a few more years. But I can't get a puppy now. : ( But I wish I could get one.
Posted by katanne9[/QUOTE]

A puppy will definitely get you out of baby mode. Binx is cute but boy, does he drive me crazy sometimes. I don't think I could handle a baby right now. You can't give them a rawhide to chew on like you can with a puppy.

dwest2201

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I confess: : A puppy will definitely get you out of baby mode. Binx is cute but boy, does he drive me crazy sometimes. I don't think I could handle a baby right now. You can't give them a rawhide to chew on like you can with a puppy.
Posted by ekathleen684[/QUOTE]


I agree... puppies are a handful, but no where near the armful that an infant is! 


And all you talking about jello shots has me craving them something fierce!  Too bad I don't have any events worth making them for... maybe a party once we're all moved in?!

musikbx

Jello is alright by me, but I confess that I'm pretty effin' scared of cotton balls!

ekathleen684

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[QUOTE]Jello is alright by me, but I confess that I'm pretty effin' scared of cotton balls!
Posted by musikbx[/QUOTE]

This may be weird but the idea of a cotton ball or gauze in my mouth makes me uncomfortable.

Anyone have pudding shots? They are amazing!

hetshup

I confess that I just got my invite proofs and I started to cry. At work. It makes it seem SO real. does happy dance.

loopy82

I have heard of pudding shots but never had them. If they come in chocolate I think I may like them.

Glad you have something to make you do a happy dance Hetshup.

I want to have my own b*tch ( I mean that in the nicest way possible) here to do all the wedding stuff I don't feel like doing.

katanne9

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[QUOTE]I confess that I just got my invite proofs and I started to cry. At work. It makes it seem SO real. does happy dance.
Posted by hetshup[/QUOTE]


It's the little things that make it seem real. : )

I didn't cry once dress shopping, but as soon as I previewed my ceremony musician and he played "here comes the sun" I just starting crying. I could just see myself walking down the aisle.

I'm glad you had something to cheer about : )

[Deleted User]

I confess that I just now clicked on this post and I haven't the time to read thru it because in about 45 minutes we're leaving for New Orleans.

I confess that I feel like I could cry at any moment because of frustration and the unknown. 

I confess that I'm secretly excited that I just got a phone call for an interview in Shreveport and the thought of moving there sounds fun.  (It's about 4 hours from where we are now).

I confess that I am on the edge when it comes to FFIL.  He is REALLY starting to piss me off.

katanne9

Have a wonderful time together in New Orleans!

sapphirebaby926

That's really exciting Jeter! Have fun in New Orleans!

[Deleted User]

Thanks girls - I will!

Have fun painting Kat!!!

Narwhal

I confess that I'm really too tired to do anything with BF tonight so I'm just going to stay home and wallow in self pity.

I confess that I have a much easier time sincerely caring for my Hospice patients than I do my own grandmother. ( That's a big confession for me. )

I confess that I really hope my sister gets a baby soon so that it will put me out of this baby kick for a while. 

I confess... that I feel like I've smelled bad for the past 3 days even though I've been showering, burshing my teeth, and using excessive deoderant.

I confess that I recognize BF has gained a good bit of weight recently.  He's also gotten taller (isn't he a little old for a growth spurt?) and I really don't mind the gain.  I prefer it to when he was really skinny.. although the thing that bothers me is the fact that he complains about it so much but doesn't really want to do anything to change it.

tafft1

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[QUOTE]I confess that I just got my invite proofs and I started to cry. At work. It makes it seem SO real. does happy dance.
Posted by hetshup[/QUOTE]

Awww I know how you feel ! When I printed my invites out last weekend , I cried and wanted to run and show everyone!

I confess I don't want to wait until August to get married , I want it to be now now now! ( yeah Paige I stole it from you !)

I confess I am scared sh!tless about my MOH and bridesmaids planning something for my bachelorette party the night before the wedding.

I confess that when I opened the mail today and got our first rsvp back I nearly cried.

I confess I feel closer to my FFIL than I ever have for my biological dad and totally unable to pay back my FFIL for his generosity. He does things all the time for FI and I  - takes us out to dinner , helps us with apartment stuff when needed , and wrote us a check for 1500 dollars for our wedding. I had to stop myself from crying and hugging him to death.

I confess everytime I look in my closet and see my veil for my wedding I start to cry and have to stop myself from wearing it around the house.

catemeg

I confess
.... that Paris is lovely, but I really, really want my boyfriend to be here.  Traveling is just more fun when he's there to enjoy it with me.

... that I am more excited to go home to be with him than spend the next day and a half in Paris

... that my biological clock is definitely smacking me upside the head recentlly... especially since BF has started saying cute things like, "It'll be fun when we try to get pregnant, and then you'll be all chubby and cute." (No rush, ladies - we're waiting at least 2 years after we get married, which will be in 2 years)

... people who check things off a tourbook when they travel rather than just experiencing the culture and food drive me nuts!

... my grandmother is my least favorite person in my family, and it makes me feel guilty because I don't want to talk to her or visit her

... my parents are looking to move, and I keep telling them it's a wonderful idea (because it's what's best for them and they need some convincing) but part of me is really sad that I won't be able to go "home" again or get dressed in my childhood bedroom when I get married.

... I never believed I'd end up with someone as gorgeous as my boyfriend (I figured with my high standards for personality and intellegence, I'd have to compromise on looks).  All muscley as a Marine, so super sweet and loving, amazingly hard working and dedicated, and really smart.  He's perfect! 

paintgirl

I confess...
... I gained 2 pounds on vacation.
... I'll go with Hetshup for a 2 for 1 deal on lipo.
... I have 3 business trips in the next 2 weeks. I'm grateful for the business but I booked myself too tight. I need to learn how to budget time better.
... bf is grouchy at home after a week on vacation - work stress. I get it, but...
... I'm still having stomach problems but I'm afraid to bring it up to the doctor. I'm not afraid it's something fatal - I'm afraid they won't be able to figure out what it is or will just tell me it's stress. And then what?